Divorce means significant changes, particularly when a child is involved. Often, the child will live between two homes.
While this is a definite change in circumstances, there are things that both parents can do to help the child adjust to life in two homes. Here are a few things to consider.
The new space can still be familiar
While the second home will be different, there are things that can bring familiarity. For example, the child can have access to the same toys in both houses. Parents can also try their best to implement similar routines in both houses, such as homework times, meal times and bedtimes.
Something else that can be helpful is to let the child put their own stamp on the new place. They can have their own room as a safe space. Children may even enjoy getting involved in decorating that space as it makes it feel like their own.
Smooth transitions
Handovers are very important in terms of maintaining stability for the child. A child should not feel guilty when visiting their other parent. Ideally, both parents will be able to remain civil during handovers. However, if this isn’t feasible, then a trusted family member or friend can take care of the handovers.
A suitable custody arrangement
The custody arrangement sets the tone of co-parenting relationships. Ideally, parents will set a schedule mutually, without court interference. Nonetheless, when the court does set a custody schedule, this must be followed.
All custody rulings are based on the best interests of the child. If you are in the midst of a custody case, it’s essential to have the appropriate legal information.
